WHY CAN'T THEY LOVE EACH OTHER ????

WHY IS IT WRONG FOR PEOPLE TO LIKE THE SAME SEX??

Over many years marriage has changed by the same sexes getting married. There are alot of people that are for marriage and have no probably, but the other half oppose it. Now just ask about anyone. They'll tell you they're in favor of equal rights for homosexuals. Just name the situation, and ask. They'll all say, yes, gays should have the same rights in housing, jobs, public accomodations, and should have equal access to government benefits, equal protection of the law. Then when you get to gay marriage. That's when all this talk of equality stops dead cold.


It's because there is a lot of misunderstanding about what homosexuality really is, as well as the that gay people enjoy the same civil rights protections as everyone else. There are also a lot of stereotypes about gay relationships, and even a great deal of misunderstanding of what marriage itself is all about and what its purpose is. The purpose of this is to clear up a few of these misunderstandings and discuss some of facts surrounding gay relationships and marriage, gay and straight.


Let's discuss what gay relationships are really all about. The stereotype have it that gays are promiscuous, unable to form lasting relationships, and the relationships that do form are shallow and uncommitted. But most gays do have such relationships. But the important fact to note is that just like in straight society, where such relationships also exist, they are a small amount, and exist primarily among the very young. Indeed, one of the most frequent complaints of older gay men is that it is almost impossible to find quality single men to get into a relationship with, because they're already all 'taken.

If you attend any gay event, such as a Pride festival , you'll find this to be true. As gays age and mature, just like their straight, they begin to appreciate and find their way into long-term committed relationships.A benefit to heterosexual society of gay marriage is the fact that the commitment of a marriage means the participants are discouraged from promiscous sex. This has the advantage of slowing the spread of sexually transmitted diseases, which know no sexual orientation and are equal opportunity destroyers.

These benefits of gay marriage have changed the attitudes of the majority of people in other countries where various forms of gay marriage have been legal for years. Polls show that most people there now recognize that the benefits far outweigh the trivial costs, and that far from threatening heterosexual marriage, gay marriage has actually strenghtened it.

So, having established the value of gay marriage, why are people so opposed to it?
The real reasons people oppose
gay marriage

Just not comfortable with the idea. The fact the people aren't comfortable with the idea stems primarily from the fact that for many years, society has promoted the idea that a marriage between members of the same sex is ludicrous, mainly because of the objections raised above. But if those objections don't make sense, neither does the idea that gay marriage is necessarily ludicrous. Societies have long recognized that allowing civil rights to certain groups may offend some, and at times, even the majority. But that is why constitutional government was established -- to ensure that powerless, unpopular minorities are still protected from the tyranny of the majority.

The thought of gay sex is repulsive. It will come as some surprise to a lot of heterosexuals to find out that, to a lot of gays, the thought of heterosexual sex is repulsive. But does that mean the discomfort of some gays to heterosexual couples should be a reason to deny heterosexuals the right to marry? I don't think so, even though the thought of a man kissing a woman is rather repulsive to many homosexuals.Why should it work just one way? Besides, the same sexual practices that gays engage in are often engaged in by heterosexual couples anyway - prompting the ever-popular gay T-shirt: "SO-DO-MY -- SO DO MY neighbors, SO DO